Inspiration without porn

I have spent several blog posts giving inspiration porn the bad name it deserves. I think it’s pathetic that people use images of disabled people doing perfectly normal things only to feel good about themselves. Look here and here

So today I am going to show what inspiration porn isn’t.

I have a friend in my native country of Denmark whom I still haven’t met even though we live less than 5 miles apart. We are always too busy to be able to find a time to meet so our relation is mostly through different kinds of media. We publish in similar places and we interact on social media.

I think she will be proud if she saw me introduce her as a radical-lesbian-cartoonist-disability-rights-advocate, so that is hereby done.

Since we are both into women I guess the only significant difference between us is that I am not a cartoonist – even though I’d like to be one sometimes.

About three years ago Sarah virtually stopped breathing and I virtually stopped peeing. She decided it was time for a vent and I thought I’d better go on dialysis. It has been interesting to follow her progression. It was very similar to mine in the sense that we were both born with our disability and suddenly one of our vital organs quit and we had to accept the life of a cyborg. We both find a strange satisfaction in telling our friends we are cyborgs. At the same time we curse the damn machine that limits us in out daily life.

But yesterday Sarah took the cake. She jumped off the deep end and showed that being on a vent really is no hindrance if you have a dream. She decided to audition for X-Factor Denmark and (spoiler alert for those who know Danish) not only that, she moved on to the next round.

Please allow me to introduce

Sarah, the Breathless Singer

So why is this not inspiration porn? Well, Sarah is not able to breathe. She will never be a great singer, she doesn’t have the air for it. She probably doesn’t really dream about a career in music. I know for a fact she is busy changing the world in so many other ways that I am sure her passion lies there.

To me Sarah is truly inspirational because she lives out a dream.
She is doing something that transcends her disability. She will never be a singer. But she still wanted to audition for a popular TV show. She didn’t expect to move on in the competition even though she did. She has a beautiful voice but it’s by no means a ‘great voice’. Why is it not a great voice? Because there is a piece of machinery behind her back controlling the air that goes into it. All she controls is her vocal chords.

And she did that fantastically. I am looking forward to seeing Sarah next time around. You go, girl!

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